You cannot expect a child to evolve if everything is done for them. You must teach them to think for themselves and make its own decisions without depending on others. It’s not easy to see loved ones make wrong decisions, but sometimes we can’t interfere with their learning process, they need to learn certain lessons. Lessons can be learned in easier ways, but they will never be forgotten when learned the hard way. Let them learn to handle their responsibilities and, most importantly, enjoy doing so. This advice goes for your work environment as well.