What’s happening with in you, 100% must happens the way you wanted. What is happening around you, is not on your control. Your joy and your misery is your choose. Pleasantness is a choice, isn’t it? So why it so many unpleasant happening in humane experience? Because we never took charge of the inner dimension.  We believe that by fixing outside, everything is going to be ok. In the last 100 years we have been fixed to many things outside, if we continue fixing more it won’t be a planet left. We should pursue to be more joyful, loving and focus on our inner world. Stop complaining about the outside world.