Sometimes we choose the certainty of guaranteed unhappiness of the uncertainty of possible happiness. This is a common way of living. We choose to have some sort of control over the possibility of living on a way of being fulfilling, that can provide happiness and contentment. Kind of a difference between a plastic flower and a real flower. The plastic flower can look nice but there is something unique on the real flower, it’s truly alive and is here for just a short period of live, the energy and the beauty is incomparable. Cultivate “real flowers” to your life.