According to the book, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, there are several mistakes female makes that make men not feel loved. Do you want to know those mistakes? And why he doesn’t feel loved when you do that?

1) She tries to improve his behavior or help him by offering unsolicited advice. In this case, he feels unloved because she doesn’t trust him anymore

2) She tries to change or control his behavior by sharing her upset or negative feelings. (It’s ok to share feelings nut not when they attempt to manipulate or punish.) In this case, he feels unloved because she doesn’t accept him as he is.

3) She doesn’t acknowledge what he does for her but complains about what he has not done. In this case, he feels taken for granted and unloved because she doesn’t appreciate what he does.

4) She corrects his behavior and tells him what to do as if he were a child. In this case, he feels unloved because he does not feel admired.

5) She expresses her upset feelings indirectly with rhetorical questions like “How could you do that?” In this case, he feels unloved because he feels she has taken away her approval. He no longer feels like the good guy.

6) When he makes decisions or takes the initiative, she corrects or criticizes him. In this case, he feels unloved because she does not encourage him to do things independently.