Change the way you look into thing and things will change. I did this recently with my daughters, I was always complaining how hard it was to be a mom and still find time to work. I now shifted it, I think it’s a huge opportunity to be part of their life’s and every moment with them counts on their journey. I try to do my best; I enjoy taking care of them and being present in their life’s. Soon they will be gone, it’s my wish to help them build a “strong ship” to they can navigate this world by themselves safely. After a few months acting with more love and perceived they are loving me back more.