Be aware of your vocabulary. Our body is composed of 70% of water. If words have the power to impact water, they have the power to impact any human being too. The first step is to perceive if you have spoken from your energy of lack, then tell the person that you are working on yourself and ask the opportunity to rephrase the sentence, looking for the words from you energy of love. If you persist in working on that it would come a time that you would be able to rephrase before you speak and finally always speak from this energy of abundance and love. You will see the impact of your words during this journey, for sure.